Random Tips From a Rich Pool

Marriage / relationship is an interesting topic. Consequently, there are a lot of advise out there about marriages and relationships. A lot of folks have expressed their opinions in diverse ways on the above. Still , it's not exhaustive! In this article, I will drop a few bullet points which might be useful in the bid to do marriage / relationship right. 

• Marry your friend. This is so key!
• Build memories and create family rituals rather than comparing your marriage with someone else’s.
• Be willing to learn and unlearn things.
• Be vulnerable and teachable.
•  Please both parties should learn to say "sorry" even though you are not the offender because two wrongs can’t make a right.

• Never say things out of anger. Control your emotions!
•  Never compare yourselves with others. Every relationship has its own unique challenges.
• Don’t go into marriage with expectations like a man should always provide solely or a woman should always be the one to cook. Be open-minded and flexible. This will save you a lot of troubles.
• Two people can’t understand love the same way, it is rare!  However, both should be ready to learn what love means to each other. Communication is key!
•  It’s not like men or women are right all the time. I’m not saying the husband isn’t the head. However, there are times the wife needs to understand the thought process of her man respectfully. Generally, communication can help create understanding and partners should endeavor to run things by each other.

•  We should all be ready to play the fool at some point. Swallow your pride! It won’t take you anywhere as you guys might be fighting and sleeping on the same bed.
•  I believe marriage is simply two forgivers living together. Do right, be right, forgive!
• How you pass a message across is very vital irrespective of the gender. There should always be understanding between both parties though. It makes everything easier.
•  Have a joint account where you save and from where you pay your bills. But also have your personal money.
• Can you guys just concentrate on knowing and finding yourselves first?
• Enjoy your company; take care of yourselves first. Love yourself(ves). And,  don’t stop after marriage.

I close with this :

• You can’t learn everything .  A lot you’ll learn while being married/ or in a relationship.

Again, this is far from being exhaustive. And, feel free to add yours to the unending list and share with your family and friends please 🙏.

xxx 😘 ❤️❤️

Gpland ( and contributions from AHS 2006 set ) 

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